The Process Step by Step...

Step 1: Face to Face Consultation

Jill Rhodes Harvey personally meets every client to gain a clear understanding of their lifestyle, family background, dating and relationship history to future relationship goals. Meetings are informal, no corporate approach, nor forms to fill in, but a relaxed, informal chat to learn about you in the most natural way. This provides the opportunity for you to decide if a private search service is for you, and for Jill to understand what you expect from the service, and lastly a window for Jill to explain if she feels your criteria, must haves and deal breakers would present any issues along the way. 

Step 2: Consultation Summary

At the end of the meeting Jill will ask if you would like a "brief summary " of your meeting by email. This provides you with the opportunity of gaining an insight into whether Jill has observed and understood you as a person and what you're looking for and any advice and guidance she feels might help you in your partner search. You are under NO obligation to go ahead with the service, but you are asked to give a definitive answer within 2- 5 days. 

Step 3: Becoming a Client


Just confirm within 5 days if you wish to go ahead, photo identification, 2-3 utility bills showing the name and address you've given us, matches those details. This is perfectly normal, all reputable introduction agencies require this. We also insist every clients introduction produces the same. Payment is required within 7 days of confirming you are going ahead. Once received you will receive an e-receipt for your own records stating clearly the level of service you have chosen. Work begins immediately.

Step 4: Profile Design

Jill personally designs all clients profiles so they are unique to each client and are not designed until photos have been provided. This enables Jill to design your profile to compliment what you're wearing and colors chosen. If you have a high profile position and prefer not to have photos in your profile, please inform Jill and she will discuss this with you. Personal details; surname, address, phone numbers are never included in a profile, these are held in the strictest of confidence. 

Step 5: Your Private Search


Is completely custom tailored and designed around the criteria we have discussed and agreed upon. Typically it takes approximately 15 days to get everything in motion. Remember; this is NOT an off the peg service, your introductions are brought forward for you and you only, so initial work needs to be carried out to pool people matching your criteria. All introductions selected by Jill, will be met, vetted and interviewed and only put forward IF they meet at least 80% of the agreed criteria for your search.

Step 6: Secure Vetting

Our vetting process is thorough and stringent which includes single status background checks, ID verification, proof of divorce if divorced and past dating and relationship history. 

Step 7: Communication and feedback.

Jill always keeps clients up to date with the progress of their search, and never leaves clients wondering what is happening, this is vital in creating a good working relationship. It is also important that clients provide written feedback initially after an introduction as this provides a hard copy for both parties to keep and work from. 


A privately owned introduction agency, operated solely by the owner Jill Rhodes Harvey. We provide bespoke, specialist matchmaking services for successful and affluent single professionals aged 40 plus covering London and the Home Counties.  



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